CROSSTALK · FREE CONVERSATION QUESTIONS
For the couple who knows each other’s coffee order and wants to know each other again.
Start with Warm Up and see where the conversation takes you. Ask one question, listen to the answer, and ask it back. Anyone can pass at any time. There is no rush to go deeper.
Warm Up
- What is a habit of mine you used to find annoying and now secretly love?
- What is the best meal we have ever shared?
- What song would be playing in the movie version of our relationship?
- If we could go back to one trip together, which one?
- What is something new you have gotten into that I do not know enough about?
- What is the funniest thing that has ever happened to us?
- What is something I do that always makes you laugh?
- If we had a whole weekend with no responsibilities, what would we do?
- What is a show or movie that feels like ours?
- What is something new you want to try together this year?
Get Real
- How have I changed since we met, in a way you like?
- What is something we used to do that you miss?
- When do you feel most like a team with me?
- What is one thing about our life right now you want to protect?
- What is a small thing I could do this week that would make you feel cared for?
- What is something you appreciate about me that you have never said?
- How do you like to be supported when you are stressed?
- What is a way we have grown together that you are proud of?
- What is a small routine of ours you never want to lose?
- What is something you wish we argued about less?
Go Deep
- When did you know this was going to last?
- What is something you have been carrying that you have not told me?
- Is there a version of you that has not had room to show up in our relationship?
- What is a hard season we got through that made us stronger?
- What do you want the next chapter of us to look like?
- What is a fear about us that you have never said out loud?
- When have you felt most loved by me?
- What is a dream you want us to chase together?
- What do you need more of from me right now?
- If you could only tell me one thing tonight, what would it be?
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