Dating Questions to Ask Yourself
For figuring out what you actually want, not what you’ve settled for. Honest questions for anyone navigating the search.
The List
- What are you actually looking for right now, honestly?
- What’s a green flag you’ve learned to look for?
- What’s a pattern in who you’re drawn to that you’ve noticed?
- What does a relationship need to have for you to feel safe in it?
- What’s a deal-breaker you used to ignore but won’t anymore?
- How do you know when you actually like someone versus the idea of them?
- What’s something dating has taught you about yourself?
- Where do you tend to lose yourself when you start liking someone?
- What would you need to feel truly chosen by a partner?
- What’s a fear that comes up when things start getting real?
- What does ‘taking it slow’ actually mean to you?
- What are you no longer willing to tolerate, even for chemistry?
- What kind of partner are you working on becoming?
- What’s a need you’ve been afraid would make you ‘too much’?
- What does the right relationship feel like, in your gut?