That Love Coach

Relationship Questions

For the people you keep choosing. These work for partners, but also for any relationship you want to understand more honestly.

The Questions

Warm Up

  1. What is your favorite way to spend time with someone you love?
  2. What is a love song that actually gets it right?
  3. What is the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?
  4. What did love look like in the house you grew up in?
  5. What is a small habit that makes a relationship feel good?
  6. What couple do you admire, and why?
  7. What is the sweetest thing you have seen someone do for their partner?
  8. What is your idea of a perfect anniversary?
  9. What small gesture makes you feel noticed?
  10. What is the best relationship advice you have ever heard?

Get Real

  1. How do you show love, and how do you most like to receive it?
  2. What is something a past relationship taught you that you are grateful for?
  3. What do you do when you feel disconnected from someone you love?
  4. What does respect look like in a relationship to you?
  5. What is one thing you need in love that you used to be afraid to ask for?
  6. How do you handle conflict, honestly?
  7. What makes it hard for you to ask for what you need?
  8. What does a real apology look like to you?
  9. What are you still learning about loving someone well?
  10. How do you know when you feel truly safe with someone?

Go Deep

  1. What pattern from your past keeps showing up in your relationships?
  2. What does it feel like to be truly seen by someone?
  3. When have you stayed somewhere longer than you should have, and why?
  4. What scares you most about being fully known?
  5. What kind of love do you want to give from here on?
  6. What relationship changed who you are?
  7. What are you afraid to need from a partner?
  8. How has your heart been hurt, and how did you heal?
  9. What would you tell your younger self about love?
  10. What does forever mean to you now?
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